A wish is a feel, a strong desire or hope for something that is not easily attained; a want for something that cannot or probably will not happen. "In life you get what you give", to me that means that unless you put effort into your "wish" it will not happen, so unless you change you will not see change. Be the change you want to see. If you wish one a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year without heart, have you really done anything? SO...Listen (read), offer suggestions, contribute, that's the only way your "wish" will come true! Merry Christmas!